Natural birth and pressuring in-laws? help!?

girl this is your pregnancy, no matter how many people may or may not be around you during delivery, you'll still have to do it all by yourself. ITS NOT THEIR DECISION, you need to follow your instincts thats the only way to get through childbirth. if you want painmeds you should get them. if they get on your back about this, remind them they wont be in labor, youll be.